We do not choose friends based on much else. It is important; however, to have standards for friendships. Just as you would have standards for a love relationship. Whether for love or friendship, let’s talk about getting to know the person that will always be there… You! To begin with, what word comes in your mind when you describe or hear the word ” friend”? For me, I’d say ‘crazy, ‘deviant’, ‘love’, ‘stupid’ in a positive way and ‘crazy again. Today, I’m going to tell you on how you should choose your friends.
You may agree or disagree with me but please, don’t Judge me. As humans are social creatures by nature; we’re always in need of friends and companions. Most of our lives depend on interaction with others. Strong individuals are the core of a strong community, something that all of us should always strive for. Friends are mostly your companion all through your life. So when you say companion, it meaner you have him or her right there beside you always, through thick and thin, thru good times and bad times.
For me, some characters that I personally recommend are those who has the ability to understand and mingle with me in times when they are called for or not, it may be Just for fun or some random scenario that we students usually have in schools or in any other places. Friends that are pesticides and educated in some ways are helpful in dire needs especially during exams and Proms, if you know what I mean. In some cases, loud, crazy and humorous people are most likely what today’s youth want and I think that’s where I belong.
While others probably want those silent-shy type of person as a friend to interact with. Who knows when to Ana not to speak A friend that is honest is one of the best friends you can have. Trust and honesty are cornerstones in any relationship. Choosing a friend who can tell you how it is will be something you’ll appreciate greatly, albeit, you may not always appreciate it in hat particular moment, you’ll look back on it and appreciate it later… Really. An honest friend will keep you from walking out of the house wearing that awful green shirt or tell you that the girl you’re going to ask out isn’t interested.
They’re supportive in their honesty, and you should choose someone you know will not lie. We’ve all had friends that only want things from us, but they never seem willing to give to us when we need it. Relationships involve compromise. Sometimes you’re going to do what your friend wants to do, even though it’s not quite your thing, and onetime she or he is going to do what you want to do, even though it’s not quite their thing. Understand that not all friendships start by having things in common.
Many times, differences between you can make a friendship even more interesting. Make sure however, that each of you can talk easily, enjoy the same sense of humor, and has time to develop a relationship. Finding friends should not be a chore. It is something that will Just happen. Friends need to laugh together. We like our good times in life, and sometimes the best times come from our own odd character traits. Think you don’t get to Just choose who you’re friends with? Absolutely not. You get just as much say who your friends are as they do.
Making friends is one thing, but choosing who your friends are is incredibly important, because your friends are your guides in life as well as the people who help define who you are. In some ways, they are family. There are some friends who are closer to you than others, but who you choose to share important parts of your life with matters.
